Pocket Rocket...

Hello lovies,
I went out with S5C (Stage 5 Clinger) on Tuesday night when I got out of class. We went to the Cheesecake Factory and sat at the bar to watch the HEAT -VS- MAVERICS game. Now, I was not really into S5C too much. He was very controlling and it had to be his way, or no way. I hate arrogant men. I thought I would give it one more try, so that is why I agreed to meet.
Class ran a bit late, so when I arrived he already had a table. I walked in and sat down. He looked at me and said, "Wow, I do not even get a hug hello?" I looked at him and replied, " Your the man, when a woman you are trying to court walks in, you get up and greet her hello. Not sit on your ass." Am I wrong for thinking like that?
So we ordered some food, and we were talking. He told me to, "feel how cold his hands were" under the table. So I reached under the table and I felt a vibrating object in my hand. I quickly yanked away and said what the hell was that? S5C started laughing and handed me a black bag. I knew what it was. I tried to be a good sport about it and just smiled. I put the black bag in my purse and excused myself to the bathroom (no, not to use the pocket rocket lol). I had to think about where this whole thing was going. S5C was never really a "pot" or "sd". This man wanted a relationship, well, so I thought. If that were the case, he wouldnt have bought me a pocket rocket. He would try to court me like a gentlemen. The first thing he ever bought me shouldnt have been a vibrator. Sorry, but thats not a way for HIM to get in my pants. Now that I have a vibrator, what do I need him for? You are dismissed S5C.

I went back to the table and sat down. We started talking about, "us". Which just lead to bickering at one another. He wouldnt let me speak and tell him how I felt. I told him this would never work. He kept telling me to be quiet and stop saying that. I politely said, "thank you for dinner", and got up and left. ( Yes, I took the vibrator.)

Growing relationships are suppose to be fun. Not arguing on the second date.

So that was the end of S5C. Maybe if he had actually gotten me a gift, plus the vibrator I wouldnt have been annoyed. Why say you want a relationship, not someone to fuck? When clearly, that is not true.
                                            
             
**I do not know what I am seeking out of my journey. As I said in my last post, I am open to a relationship. I am also down with the strictly SD/SB arrangement. **

Let's Start Over...

So I have been stalking anyones blog I can get access too. I have read most of them from beginning to end and I think I have this whole Sugar stuff all wrong.

I decided to give my blog a makeover. First of all, it wasnt fit to who I really am. I am a 23 year old female, who has brown hair, brown eyes, tan skin with plenty of tattoos. I have a sarcasitc sense of humor and sometimes, a fucked up personality. I am rough around the edges, and have NO time for bull shit. I am quick to kick someones ass to the curb. I am a mom to a beautiful little girl and a college student studying Criminal Justice..

                      SUGAR..

I am on Seeking Arrangement and SugarDaddie.com  I do not know if its because of my location, but I have better "luck" on SugarDaddie.com. Every once in awhile I will get some emails from Seeking Arrangement. The shit thing about SD is, you have to pay. Also, a lot of men on there are looking for a relationship. Most of the men that are looking for a relationship are SUPER clingy. I thought to myself, I can fake the relationship part. Atleast, I will try. Is it mean? Maybe. Do I care? Not really. I know Karma is a bitch. The men who wants a girlfriend seem to be more generous. Now that brings me to the first guy...

                                                         In my sugar bowl....

I started talking to this guy named STAGE 5 CLINGER lol...I will abbreviate and call him S5C haha...

Okay so S5C is a 45 year old man I met of SD.COM. He is in medical sales and lives 20 min away from me. We have been talking for two months now. About two weeks ago, we went to dinner at Rocco Tacos. We hit it off right away. I thought he was very handsome (finally a change from the duds I have met in the past), great body and smelled yummy. I think he put on a little too much cologne, but whatever. We had some drinks at the bar and then made our way to the table for food. We had great conversations and I felt really comfortable around him. The night ended and he walked me to my car, I could tell he wanted to kiss me. I do not kiss on the first date. I hugged him and thanked him for dinner. Right after he started texting me and asking me what I thought of him. I told him he was attractive and I was interested. We would meet up again soon.
S5C and I were suppose to meet up last week after I got out of class. His son was in a car accident and he couldnt make it. It was fine, I was tired anyway. The Saturday he wanted to take me to the Mall in Miami. Things got complicated. My daughter was very fussy. Her two bottom teeth are coming in and I didnt want to leave her with my mom. S5C said I could bring the baby, but I didnt want to. He was pissed off about it. Oh well, he raised a baby so he should cut me some slack.
I have mixed feelings about him. He is nice, but trys to control me. I do not like to be controlled. I guess that is the trade off to seeing a man who has money and a big ego.

P.S- S5C is looking for a relationship. I do not know how I feel about it. I really want something fun and casual and see what happens. I am not totally opposed to being in a relationship. Just not right away.
                                                          
He also sent me a pic of his ex, dont know why. If you google core models..she will come up in one of the albums on Myspace. She has a sexy look to her. Not very classy. We are TOTALLY different.

                         TONIGHT...
I have a date with a pot. I have not decided if I am going to go out with him or not. I have class tonight. S5C wants to hang out too and watch the HEAT game. I hate basketball and want the Mavericks to win haha. Florida pro fans are so fake. They only cheer for a team when they are winning.

Florida

I am finally back in Florida and settled. I havent updated in awhile because nothing was going on in Texas. I am talking to a few pots here. I was suppose to have lunch with one on Saturday but I was feeling kind of lazy so I canceled. I dont know why I did it. The man is SO SO SEXY. Maybe I am too scared he wont be interested in me? Usually I dont care. We havent rescheduled yet. I need to get my shit together lol.

Bored

I am bored today. Texas kind of sucks for pots. Atleast where I am at. I know there are some good ones in Dallas, but I dont travel up there much. I will be going this weekend though. I might plan a couple of dates. I might even stay for the whole week. Not sure yet.
Ddoc is back in town and wants me to meet him. I am thinking about it. Maybe he had sipped too much wine that night. I kind of believe in second chances. At the same time I am not desperate. Ill tell him I really want to get my hair done, nails and buy a new outfit to come see him. Maybe he can help. Also I need gas money and pay a baby sitter. He seems to really be into me. I am also talking to these two pots in the sunshine state since I might be moving back there. One wants more of a relationship and the other one wants strictly SD. They both are really good looking. I havent made a decision yet. I have a lot on my mind. BLAH

Sunday....boring day..

So I had two SD dates planned today. One was with a pot, the other one is someone I have met once before. My dad needs to borrow my car though. Its quite annoying that him and his wife only have one vehicle and have to share it. Then I become the backup plan. I would have no problem accepting a ride from the SD I have been out on a date with once before. But then I feel like I am not in control. I would rather have my own escape vehicle. Its somethin I will have to think about. I wish I lived in a city where I could just take the train or bus. Oh well for dreaming lol.
I am thinking about relocating to my old stomping grounds. Its the sunshine state lol. Right now I am living in this shit city in the big T state. There are pots here, but I would have the creme of the crop in the sunshine state. Things to ponder..

RuthChris

So I met Ddoc at Ruth Chris around 7:00pm. I got out of my car and he noticed me right away. The first thing he said was, wow you are beautiful. Your pictures don't do you justice. How sweet. He was better looking then his pictures too. We were sat at a booth in the corner and started talking. He tried to take control and have the waiter order something off the menu for me. I objected right away. I am more then capable of ordering something off the menu of my liking lol. This man LOVES to eat. We started off with two appetizers of crab cakes. It was delicious. We then ordered a salad to share with some soup. Finally we ordered our main course. I was so full by then I took most of it to go (your welcome dad). Ddoc was on call most of the night and had to get on the phone a few times for patients in the E.R. This didn't bother me at all. I am in nursing school and I found this a bit educational . Things were going well and the conversation was flowing nicely. I can pretty much hold a conversation with anyone. He kept telling me to come sit next to him. I politely declined. I don't like to sit next to anyone while I am eating. Plus I would rather look directly at the person when I am having a conversation. Ddoc has been sipping on a glass of wine all night. All the sudden it was like he was intoxicated. He was a little loopy and babaling about, I dont know what (talk about a light weight). He kept asking to see my hands/arm. I offered it to him and he started to massage it. I felt a little uncomfortable with the whole thing. Since I wouldn't sit next to him, he came and sat next to me instead. He kept rubbing my shoulder and neck. I stiffened up right away. He kept telling me to relax, he is a doctor and people pay a lot of money for his hands. Umm, okay? I tried to play a long and go with the flow. I can be a bitch and I was trying really hard not to. (I think I bit my tongue so hard it started bleeding haha.) He kept on telling me how much he liked me and wanted to start an arrangement. I listened to what he had to say. I just shook my head and acted like I was interested. By this point I was turned off. He slipped an envelope in my purse and told me this was for the gas I used (wasted was more like it) to come down there. It was only a 15 min drive, but whatever. I thanked him and told him I was getting tired and had to be up early in the morning, we should probably get going. He walked me to my car and grabbed my face really hard and kissed me. I couldn't even turn my head. I kept like lips pursed so damn tight so he wouldn't slip me the tongue. He held on for what felt like 5 min. It actually hurt my cheek. I finally was able to get away and said I don't kiss on the first date. I am sorry. He said he respected that. We parted ways and I jumped in my car, locked the door and drove away. I didn't contact him the next day, he decided to text me and ask me If I was no longer interested. I told him I was busy and havent spoken to him since. I really thought I had hit the gold pot. I might have if I wasn't so damn picky. I just feel he crossed a line and made me feel uncomfortable. If he hadn't had been so aggressive things might have been different. Oh well, onto the next one. XOXO, SWEET SUGAR P.S- I made a google voice account and facebook. Add me!!

What the hell was I thinking?

I was contacted by this guy we will call Mr.DayTime on SA. He was married and wanted to hang out with someone during the day while he was "working". I met him up last week for a cheap lunch lol. I hate chain restaurants. Anywho, he wasnt bad looking. He was a little uptight and got straight to the point about the arrangement. He told me he had an arrangement with one other girl for awhile and she started dating someone. So they ended things. The arrangement was to meet up two to three times a week for an allowance of 1000 dollars a month. I thought this was a lot of time for little money. We finished lunch and he told me he was interested. So he wanted to see me on Monday. Monday comes around and I was too tired to meet up with him. Today he contacted me and asked if I would meet him today. I was like sure. He told me to meet him at a hotel room. I really had to think about if I wanted to do this. I mean, this isnt what a sugar relationship is. Atleast not in my mind. This was borderline prostitution/escort. So after a lot of thought, I decided to go. I was really scared. Was this a set up, was he going to kill me..etc. I got dressed and put a gun in my purse. I met him at the hotel. Soon as I saw him I wanted to throw up and run back into my car. The physical chemistry wasnt there at all. We went into the room and he started kissing me. He was a pretty good kisser so I thought, I could do this. Soon after that the clothes came off. He was taking the lead (which I usually do). I didnt want him to touch me. He was kissing my body and I cringed. He told me to turn on my stomach, so I did. He continued to kiss me. I was laying there thinking WHAT THE FUCK AM I DOING. So I finally turned back around and said, listen I cant do this. I am so sorry for wasting your time. It doesnt feel right and I would feel horrible about myself. This isnt what a sugar daddy is. Its not meeting up in a hotel room to fuck. I put my clothes back on and said I needed to go. He was really nice and understanding about it. He gave me 100.00 dollars and told me to go get my hair done. LOL my hair cost way more money then 100.00. I left the room and drove home. I jumped right into the shower to wash everything off. I just wanted to shove the bar of soap in my mouth lol. Lesson learned. Onto a better note. I have a date tonight with a doctor from SD. What name shall I give him? How about, Ddoc. Anyway, we emailed a lot back and forth. We have spoken on the phone. He is european and very generous. He has already offered to pay my gas and help me out with anything else I need. We are going to Ruth Chris Steak House. I have never been, but I know its very nice. Ddoc has some potential. I will update tonight. xoxo, Sweet Sugar. P.S( Can you P.S on a blog?)- I have been reading a lot of other blogs, including the one on SA to get a better idea on how to screen pots. Not make the same mistake as I did earlier this afternoon. This is all new to me so its going to be a learning experience for sure. Any comments would be great.

The Journey has begun

Here are a few sites I have signed up on so far and I will write a little bit on what I think of it. Please feel free to comment on what you think of the site too. Sugardaddie- The site is okay. You can really narrow down who lives close by to you. Just in the same state. There are thousands of men on it. Its a bit overwhelming, you never see the same person twice. I dont believe they have "certified" members. Some guys seem a bit flaky. You do have to be a paying member to read emails. I havent met anyone off it yet. SeekingArrangement- I really like this site so far. I believe its my favorite. I have met a few men off it. Seem's are majority are married. Happily married I should add. They say they are bored, which I find interesting. You dont have to pay on this site. They have certified members. Also, you can see who is close to you. Within a certain mile radius. I do like that a lot. Also men travel to my city more then they live here. I think its makes things a bit more difficult. Those men seem to want a booty call. Ashley Madison- I joined this site out of curiousity. Its an affair site. You can mark off that you are looking for a sugar daddie type relationship. Now with that being said, be prepared to be overwhelmed with emails on trading pics. Its quite annoying. I only read custom emails, and priority mail. I also chat in the IM box. I have met a few guys off there. Suggardaddyforme- Just joined this site. Its been okay so far. I have a few pots, but we will see. I dont have to pay for this one either. Which I like. I know there is a saying you have to spend money to make money. I am just not prepared to do that yet. I will add more later...have to run. Ciao ladies. xoxo Sweet Sugar

Welcome to my world..

So I thought that was maybe a catchy title? Okay so, welcome to my world lol. I have never been a sugar babe before. I guess it all started when I was on POF looking for a relationship. An older man contacted me asking if I wanted to be his sugar babe. I was like, what the heck is a sugar babe lol? So I googled it and Sugardaddie.com was on of the first sites to pop up. I decided to sign up. Ironically, later that day Tyra Banks was doing her episode on sugarbabes. I watched it, and it made me laugh wen the blonde said she has only had sex with one of her sugardaddies. Whatever! I guess I am the Virgin Mary then. I believe that some girls get lucky, and find a man who really just wants to help out a beautiful girl. No sex involved or anything. But for all of her sugardaddies to have been that way? I doubt it. Thats okay, denial helps some people feel good about themselves. Moving on, I signed up for the Sugar daddie site. There seemed to be a lot of pots on it. BUT the crapy part is, you have to pay for it. I guess that saying, you have to spend money to make money is true for the site lol. So I decided to crack open my wallet and pay. I had atleast 56 emails the first day. I was the fresh meat. I weeded through all of them and ended up with nothing. I guess I was hesitant about the whole thing. I couldnt imagine flying to the other side of the united states to meet someone. What if they were crazy, fake, etc? I decided at the time, maybe this isnt for me. So I stopped logging on after my membership expired. A year late, I am back and ready to start my journey on finding a sugar daddy.