I went out with S5C (Stage 5 Clinger) on Tuesday night when I got out of class. We went to the Cheesecake Factory and sat at the bar to watch the HEAT -VS- MAVERICS game. Now, I was not really into S5C too much. He was very controlling and it had to be his way, or no way. I hate arrogant men. I thought I would give it one more try, so that is why I agreed to meet.
Class ran a bit late, so when I arrived he already had a table. I walked in and sat down. He looked at me and said, "Wow, I do not even get a hug hello?" I looked at him and replied, " Your the man, when a woman you are trying to court walks in, you get up and greet her hello. Not sit on your ass." Am I wrong for thinking like that?
So we ordered some food, and we were talking. He told me to, "feel how cold his hands were" under the table. So I reached under the table and I felt a vibrating object in my hand. I quickly yanked away and said what the hell was that? S5C started laughing and handed me a black bag. I knew what it was. I tried to be a good sport about it and just smiled. I put the black bag in my purse and excused myself to the bathroom (no, not to use the pocket rocket lol). I had to think about where this whole thing was going. S5C was never really a "pot" or "sd". This man wanted a relationship, well, so I thought. If that were the case, he wouldnt have bought me a pocket rocket. He would try to court me like a gentlemen. The first thing he ever bought me shouldnt have been a vibrator. Sorry, but thats not a way for HIM to get in my pants. Now that I have a vibrator, what do I need him for? You are dismissed S5C.
I went back to the table and sat down. We started talking about, "us". Which just lead to bickering at one another. He wouldnt let me speak and tell him how I felt. I told him this would never work. He kept telling me to be quiet and stop saying that. I politely said, "thank you for dinner", and got up and left. ( Yes, I took the vibrator.)
Growing relationships are suppose to be fun. Not arguing on the second date.
So that was the end of S5C. Maybe if he had actually gotten me a gift, plus the vibrator I wouldnt have been annoyed. Why say you want a relationship, not someone to fuck? When clearly, that is not true.
**I do not know what I am seeking out of my journey. As I said in my last post, I am open to a relationship. I am also down with the strictly SD/SB arrangement. **
